IT’S YOUR CHOICE: SUCCESS OR FAILURE
You ever notice how life isn’t perfect? That sometimes it’s downright unfair? This especially seems to be the case in the music business. We’ve all known artists and bands that should have made it but didn’t, while others not nearly as good have achieved success. What’s up with that?
Well, you could simply conclude, “Life is unfair.” Or, you could even think, “They were lucky.” But that’s not the whole story. Some peeps like to blame the music industry in general, particularly A&R and music execs. But, it’s way too easy to dump on the industry, calling it a shallow pit filled with soul-killing vipers. Sure, those types exist, but their influence can be greatly overrated. Because, you know what? Sometimes, believe it or not, it’s the artist who’s to blame.
Whoa! Did I just say that? I’m an artist-loving journalist. I’ve even been an artist myself (in another life). But, every now and then, artists – particularly talented ones – can drive you to drink.
Why do some artists succeed where others fail? Putting aside timing (which is a factor), it usually involves the artist’s mind-set and work ethic. The most successful acts have a driving ambition to succeed. They don’t just dream about it and wish it happens — they DO things to make it happen. If that sounds like “work,” it should. If you really want to make it in this biz, you have to treat it like a job.
It’s almost traditional for artists to have day gigs that suck the joy right out of their souls. Jobs that are exhausting, boring and depressing. But that can’t stop you. The most successful acts work on their careers EVERY SINGLE DAY. They’ll come home, after hours of menial labor, and spend 2 to 4 hours on their computer, contacting people, updating their websites, and generally taking care of business. No matter what… Are you willing to do that? Are you willing to do whatever it takes? If so, you’ll get a jump on 90% of the wannabes.
Knowing something about the biz is also essential. Learn about marketing and promotions, and get as creative as you are with your music. Ask for advice, listen to pros who can help you, and then apply what you’ve learned. Don’t think you know it all. If you did, you’d already be famous.
I know, that sounds like a lot of time and bother. But, how long have you been working at it? What results have you gotten? Success does not happen overnight despite the headlines. All too often, I’ve checked in on artists six months down the line – sometimes a year later – and noticed that their careers haven’t moved an inch. Don’t let that happen to you. Set up goals and, every 90 days, take a look at your progress. Have you achieved anything? Has your career advanced? Are you better off than you were 90 days ago? If not, you need to take an honest look at what you’re doing, and figure out what you can do better.
Start today, and treat your career seriously. If you have what it takes, you can make it happen.
—Bernard Baur












November 18th, 2008 at 12:44 pm
Amen, brotha!!!! can i get a witness?!!! i love it, man-say it, love it feel it, do it live it…every day…this is what i am, this is what i do, and i do it every day…and i do it this way! i love you, bb-you are truly the advocate of the artist…and artist IS A VERB!!!
best, jg…i hope to make you proud one day soon…and make you look like a goddamn genius for having “seen” me , my true self as a singer and a songwriter and a singular and unique artist with great potential as an individual artist in this world of my great heroes in song…long before i…before I…even truly knew or saw myself and what i really did…clearly…and you validated it and me …and that gave me the courage to go out and find it in, and for, myself…i can never thank you enough, but i’m sure gonna try! 
best, jonny g.
November 20th, 2008 at 9:59 pm
I have to say that I TOTALLY AGREE with what Bernard wrote here! I am living proof of “If you put your mind to something, work hard, BELIEVE in yourself…you can make your dreams a reality! I have accomplished so many wonderful things as an indie artist…It’s not easy, BUT I am living my dreams every day!!! I’ve traveled & performed around the world, have radio play around the world, and I’m currently working on my 4th album! I make a list of goals for the year…daily goals, weekly goals, monthly goals and bigger goals I strive to accomplish for that year. At the end of the year, I cross off the goals I’ve accomplished and it definitely helps me to appreciate my accomplishments as well as reevaluate what I’m doing and or need to work on. In this day in age, as an artist, the more you educate yourself about the industry and business side of things, the more you can accomplish on your own. I like to say “Don’t dream your life…go out there and make it happen…LIVE your dreams!” Denise Vasquez, WO+MEN 4 A CAUSE
November 27th, 2008 at 1:11 am
Putting it simply: “Success is a Choice” is a coach. It is full of motivation talk as well as constructive criticism that Coach Pitino gave to his players in real situations. It also lists and analyzes quite a few Pitino’s own mistakes and fumbles, and this gives you the feeling of candid nonpatronizing approach. In short - this book is the next best thing to having Coach Pitino himself by your side, coaching you to success… and the guy sure is a great coach!
Social Bookmarking
November 27th, 2008 at 2:36 am
Success is different for each individual person.Too often we look at one another to measure how successful we are in our own lives. You may look at a certain person and think wow they really got it together. What you may not know is that person probably isn’t in his/her mind satisfied their own selves successfully speaking. Ask yourself what your standard of success is, but remember you are your own worst critic so go easy. Life is a journey not a destination.Success is the fruit of Good directing as a leader, providing people with specific instructions and closely suppervising task accomplishment.Coaching by explaining decisions, solicits suggestions and support progress.Supporting by facilitating and supposting subordinates efforts toward task accomplishment and shares responsibility for decision making with them.Delegating by turning over responsibility for decision making and problem solving to subordinates.
—————————-
Rose
Social Bookmarking
June 18th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
I am a firm believer that success is not by chance rather it’s but choice. Need I say more? You guys have pretty much covered all the bases.
January 5th, 2010 at 8:43 pm
YS0106A6 The town’s poor seem to me often to live the most independent cheap air jordan shoes lives of any.May be they are simply great enough to receive nike air max shoes on sale without misgiving
January 5th, 2010 at 9:13 pm
S0106A2 No man or woman is worth your tears,and the one who ed hardy coats is ,won’t make you cry.
January 5th, 2010 at 9:34 pm
Admirer as I think I am Of stars that do not give a discount ugg elsey boots damn,I cannot, now I see them ,sayI missed one terribly all day.
January 5th, 2010 at 9:35 pm
YS0106A3 However mean your life is,meet it and live it ;do not shun it and call it hard cheap nike shox names.
January 6th, 2010 at 8:34 pm
YS0107A9 A friend walk in when the rest of the world walks out.Sometimes in ugg adirondack boots sale life, You find a special friend; Someone who changes your cheap ugg elsey boots life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop ugg broome boots sale ; Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone discount ugg ultra short boots who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is Forever moncler jackets Friendship.when you’re down, and the world seems dark and empty, Your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times,the sad times,and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, Your forever friend follows, If you lose you way, Your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.
January 6th, 2010 at 8:51 pm
YS0107A8 A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your cheap hockey jerseys heart.There’s always going to be people that hurt you,so what you have to do is keep on trusting nfl jerseys and just be more careful about who sport jerseys you trust next time around.Make youself a better person and know who you are discount nba jerseys before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you mlb jerseys on sale.Remember:Whatever happens,happens for a reason.How many people actually have 8 true friends Hardly anyone I know.But some of us have all right friends and good friends.
January 6th, 2010 at 9:03 pm
YS0107A7 There are gains for all our losses. There are balms for all our pain; But when cheap ugg adirondack boots youth,the dream,departs It takes something ugg coquette clearance sale from our hearts, And it never comes discount ugg mayfaire boots again. We are stronger, and are better ugg elsey boots sale, Under manhood’s sterner reign;Still we feel that something wholesale ugg broome boots sweet Following youth, with flying feet, And will never come again. Something kids ugg boots sale beautiful is vanished, And we sigh for it in vain; We behold it everywhere, On the earth, and in the air,But it never comes again!
January 19th, 2010 at 10:37 am
Exactly, absolutely and on top of that be sure that everyone in the group you’re in with is on the same page. Don’t be foolish enough to think that everyone understands their roles and behaves accordingly. The leader, and there had better be one, needs to know and somehow make sure that everyone acts as they should in respect that their public persona. The public is the innocent viewer, you might say. Your 1st performance and your last appearance is part of a publicity campaign and as the artist, concern yourselves with what is expected to seen… Just as important as the records you make and put out there…
ps
This comes from a voice of experience. I am still playing out because I have recognized my own goofs. Thanks B. B.